Self-discipline is the center of all success
自律是一切成功的基础
你若不能战胜自我
You can not win the war against the world
那你也无法立于这世界
if you can’t win the war against your own mind
自律
Self-discipline
是所有实质成就的核心
is the center of all material success
99%的人都不愿去做那些能让他们梦想成真的苦差事
99% of people are not willing to do what it takes to make their dreams come true
陆战队有句谚语 “每个人都想上天堂 但却没人想死”
The Marines have a saying “Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die”
“每个人都想上天堂 但却没人想死”
“Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die”
事实就是那样
And that’s just real
让梦想成真的秘诀就是自律
At the center of bringing any dream into fruition is self-discipline
食物本身很简单 但吃饭却并不是
Something is simple as food and eating it is not
它不仅关乎你的身体 它更关乎你的思维
about your your body as much as it is about your mind
它受你思维控制
It’s getting command of your mind
让你能够选择你最感兴趣的(食物)
to be able to choose actions that are in your own best interest
大部分人都多次试图改变
A lot of people are just trying to change a lot of times
我刚做了一期关于如何养成新习惯的节目
like I just did a podcast on habits right how to be able to Adopt new habits
以及如何戒除坏习惯
And also delete and get rid of you know break bad habits Right
很多人总想实现 经常改变行为
and so a lot of people always want to make it usually make a change on behavior
他们想锻炼身体
They want to get themselves to workout
他们想让自己冥想
They want to get themselves to meditate
想让自己每天都读更多的书
they want to get themselves to read more each day
他们想让自己做些什么 对吧
And they want to get themselves to X right
或者他们想戒除一些行为习惯
or are they want to stop some behaviors
他们想戒烟
They want to stop smoking
他们没有节制地暴食 他们想停下来
They want to stop eating this food. They want to stop
我一直告诉人们不要早上醒来就看手机
I always tell people stop checking your phone in the first hour of the day
你们知道的 你们对此早就耳熟能详了
You know you’ve heard this many times right?
一日之计在于晨
If you win the first hour of the day you win the day
每天我们做的那些并不是最感兴趣的事
Every day we are choosing s**t that’s not in our own best interest
不对吗？因此若这世界正对你兵戎相见
Right? So if the world is attacking you
这世界想要打击你
and the world wants to fight you and the
这世界总是让你失望
world’s trying to hold you down
所以你只能自暴自弃？
So you gonna kick yourself in the balls?
这样只能让自己停止追逐梦想
So you will stop yourself from getting what you dream
当我想要改变或超越或者做出真正积极的改变
When I want to transform or transcend or make a real positive change
我会看看我们自己其它所有方面
I’m looking all the other areas of ourselves
比方说我会环顾周围的环境
So I’m looking at for example at environment:
人们是否会为了进步而创造环境
are people setting up their environment to win?
个人行为的变化不会带来最终的改变
And you know so the change doesn’t just happen at this level of behavior
但是你需要改变的是环境
But what you have to change is the environment
所以如果你想停止吃某种的食物
So for example if you want to stop eating a certain food
改变环境 你就在家里别放这种食物
it helps people to not have that food In your home right?
所以你改变环境
So you change the environment.
生活中 我们都一定会遭遇一两种痛苦
In life, we must all suffer one of two pains
自律的痛苦 或者后悔的痛苦
The pain of discipline or the pain of regret
做出明智的选择
I’m asking you: choose wisely!
生活中 不论你正在为什么而努力
So whatever it is that you’re trying to achieve in life
重要的是完成
the critical component is getting things done
并且系统地完成
and getting things done in a systematic way
养成与系统地达成目标有关的品格
Building the character, that’s associated with getting things done
这需要你变得自律
in this systematic way requires that you become disciplined
如果我们过着懒散不自律的生活
If we live a lazy undisciplined life
我们会屈服于我们的感官
and we just give in to our feelings
并且受这些情感的支配
and we act on these emotional impulses
我们会做出让自己后悔的糟糕选择
We’re going to make very poor choices that we regret later on.
现在开始自律 我们就会变得更好
We would be much better off to just discipline ourselves right now
所以从此以后我们不必背负后悔的沉重负担
so that later on we don’t have to carry that heavy load of regret
我认为很多人正遭受决策疲劳的痛苦
I think a lot of people suffer from decision making fatigue right
有说服力的研究表明
this is very strong research saying that
人一天能够作出好决策的数量是有限的
you can only make a certain amount of good decisions a day and
超出数量就无法做出好决策了
and after that is spent you can‘t anymore
医学领域关于外科医生的研究很好地证实了这个说法
and that’s really been fine-tuned in the medical field with surgeons and such
特别是医生何时何地做出错误决策的研究
in terms of seeing their you know where they’re making their errors and stuff with
错误决策更容易出现在一天开始的时候还是之后
early on in their day or later in their days and stuff like that
但企业家 员工和行政人员
but we all as entrepreneurs as employees and executives
或者父母 我们都要做出自己的决定
or as parents we all can make our own decisions
所以这就是为什么像马克扎克伯格或谢家华一样的人
And that’s why you know people like Mark Zuckerberg or Tony Hsieh
他们总是穿着一样的体恤和运动衫
They wear the same t-shirts and and sweatshirts all the time
因为他们不想因此消耗一次决策机会
because they don’t want to spend you know use up one of their decisions
去思考“今天我要穿什么？”—是吗？
thinking”Oh what am I gonna wear today?”- right?
我的目标就是将生活流程化
So my goal is to streamline my life
将日常琐事放在一天开始的时候和结束的时候去完成
Put the routines in the first hour of the day and in the last hour of the day
我对生活进行微管理以达到不再需要思考的流畅程度
I really Micromanage to the point where it’s habitual I don’t even have to think about it
因为这些时候
and then because those are the times of the
是我最容易受影响的时间
day where I could really have the most impact
这之后 一天当中
Because later on, in the middle day
团队成员需要紧急地解决客户问题
You know team members need this there’s firefighting this client needs
但是一天开始和结束的几个小时我很想好好把握
that but the first hour and the last hour I really want to control so
这些方法真的对毅力和耐力还有身体有很大帮助
all this really helped develop grit and resilience you know in my body
因此我能够坚持不懈
so I could have the ability to persevere
我也总是审视自己的思维
and I also stand guard to my brain all the time
观察大脑在想什么 我不怎么看
What goes in and I don’t watch like a lot
很多负面新闻 头条新闻这些
of the negative news and all the unmarked
我十分专注地观察和倾听你们的节目
I really focus like you know I watch and I listen to your show
或者也对每天自己手上的微型读物十分专注
and maybe a handful of little of things I read each day
因为我需要保持积极的状态
Because I need to keep it positive
我想看到希望并寻求帮助
I want hope and I’m looking for help
我时刻追寻灵感和指导
I’m looking for inspiration and also instruction
自律就是自爱
Self-discipline is the definition of self-love
当你爱自己的时候
when you say that you love yourself
就意味着你做着
that means that you have behavior towards yourself
爱自己的事情 就像你对自己说
that is loved like you say to yourself
嘿我知道你想吃那块披萨
Hey man look I know you want to eat that pizza
那块披萨真的非常美味
and it’ll be really good
但我不会允许你吃
You know but I can’t let you eat that man
因为你吃了披萨会感觉特别糟糕
Cuz if you eat that pizza you gonna feel like shit
我太爱你而不允许你吃
I just I love you too much to let you eat that
我认为自律这个词有个不好的名声
and I think the word discipline has kind of gotten a bad name
我们会以为自律是惩罚
We think about it in terms of punishment
我们不这样认为
I’m not talking about in in that way
我认为自律其实就是你追求
I’m talking about discipline in the sense that you you forego
内心的愉悦来获得长期的自尊
immediate pleasure for the exchange of long term self-respect.
自爱就是当你对自己说
Self love is when you say to yourself
看 我知道你真的和这个女孩儿有了联系
Man look, I know you and that girl got a real connection
我知道你很反感 但他是你喜欢的女孩儿的表哥
Umm I know you’re vibe, but that’s your girl’s cousin so
因此我太爱你 因而希望你这样做
I love you too much to let you do that
自爱就是 我知道你周一参加了一场考试
Self-love is Hey look I know you got a test on Monday
你真的很想周六晚上跟朋友出去
You know you really want to go out with your friends and Saturday night
你想出去玩但是如果你没考好你会感觉自己很糟糕
You want to go out but if you fail that test you’re not gonna feel good about yourself
我很爱你 而不会允许你晚上出去玩
You know I just I love you too much to let you go out tonight
自律就是自爱
Self- discipline is Self-love
如果你想快乐 你就需要爱你自己
If you wanna be happy you have to love yourself
这就意味着你需要规范自己的行为
which means you have to discipline your behavior
通往持续快乐之路的方法就是规范自己的行为
The road to sustained happiness is through disciplining your behavior
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